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What to Expect and How to Feel at Ease
Imagine you are coming to me for your first ever ABDL session with me. We have spoken before, exchanged a lot of information and prepared for this day. Still, it's completely ormal if you feel a little nervous. You might wonder how to act during the session, how are you going to feel, what to say, or even be worried about the possibility of silence if you don't "know" what to say or do.
Let me reassure you, these feelings are not unusual, and it is my job to create a safe, comfortable and flowing experience for both of us.
For this reason, I kindly ask that you don't arrive too early for your session, so that this preparation time is not interrupted, and this time is essential for creating the right atmosphere and exchange.
It is okay to feel nervous. But if you say something I will interact with what you are giving me, and if you don't, it's perfectly fine too and can be a powerful part of the experience. I am here to guide you and to work with you and what you say and do. If you rather not speak, think that the use of a pacifier can make it easier for you to relax and embrace the silence. I might talk to you, or we might simply spend time in comfortable quietness.
From my experience, silence can feel strange at first, but it often becomes a special moment of connection. We very few times allow ourselves to be in silence with others, and there can be so much communication in it. I might need to ask you something, and you can reply with whatever feels comfortable, either gestures or words. And there is no problem if you switch between speaking and not speaking, as I will follow your lead and flow with you, whatever direction you go to, within our boundaries. Flexibility is key in making the session feel natural for both of us, and the main reason why there are not two sessions alike.
One of the most important things I aim to provide is the sense of normality. What you feel you want may not be frequent, but is not abnormal, even if it might look like that to the general public, but in our space it is normal. My role is to create an environment where you can feel accepted and at ease. Once you are into my space and allow your mind and body to enter a different mental space, you will find in me a calming and grounding presence to help you settle in.
I am fully aware that we do together might seem very strange to the general public, but within our space, it is accepted. My role is to create an environment where you feel completely accepted and at ease. Once you step into my space and allow your mind and body to shift into a different mental space, you’ll find a grounded, calming presence that helps you settle in.
From the moment that a booking is made until the time your session happens, I am here for you to answer any questions or concerns you could have before your session, to help you feel ready for it and to support you all the way until you get to explore this experience.
Remember, the goal of this time with me is to connect, relax and flow with what feels natural and alive within little space. Uncertaintly and nervousness are also on occasions part of the process, and they are okay.
I look forward to creating many more meaninful experiences, and continue growing.